Importance of Manners and Etiquettes

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Manners are different in every country, but true politeness and impact can be seen everywhere the same way. A person who is carrying goodness within him/herself, have always been dressed up in good manners and etiquettes. There is no policy like politeness- and a good manner is the best thing in the world to get a good name and valuable recognisation. Good manners are a part of good morals, and we get it through by Education, Knowledge and lastly from our surroundings like home ,school etc. Good manners is the art of making those around us easy and comfortable. Good manners should always begin at home. Politeness is not a jewel or cloth to be worn in all dress only to be put on, inspite of that it is that vision which everybody should have in their language, behaviour and off course in their attitude. A person always gain more by being contented to be seen as he is in real, than by attempting to appear what he is not really. Good manners is the result of much good sense, some good nature, and a little self-kind heart which sometimes touch the emotions, feelings and heart of others in real appreciation manner. It should be socially realized from the heart, for being remember always by everyone that the worth of manners in real sense consists in being the sincere expressions of feelings and emoting absolute emotions.

The young students should behave mannerly, but sometimes they often feel timid, bashful and self distrustful at that moment whenever they are introduced by a stranger in front of many people. There is only one way to get over this feeling that is they should start learning aspects of manners from home with help of their parents and also from their school by taking the help from their teachers, friends etc. Good manners are not learned so much as easily by habit only. We all must be courteous, energetic, kind, enthusiastic, good learner only then we can be able to earn all mannerful qualities in us. It is truly observed that however if, we all behave at our home in a rough and noisy manner, then in the same way we will be behaving with the strangers outside. So, it is our moral duty and responsibility to adapt such kind of things within us which will help us to lead our life in the most convenient and centered way. The most agreeable persons in company are those who are the most agreeable at home. Home is the school for all the best things which we all gain and face in our life at every stage of our age.


Good manners are an essential part of our life-education, career and wisdom. It is quite interesting, that without the help of special training, no false examples, no conventionalities but because of our own nature, the gifts of good sense, a true sense of pride are sufficient measures which enable us to feel freely and face our life easily and admirably. The true art of being agreeable person is to appear well pleased with all the company and face all the situations with a gentle and kind heart and cool attitude. If a man disposed himself, perhaps he may not have much sense, learning, but if he has common sense in him or her, and something friendly in his behavior, then for sure it reflects men's minds more than the brightest parts without this disposition. It is merely believed that a sweet smile ,the quiet expression, an intelligent and polite movement in addressing a friend or especially a stranger, whom one may recommend to our good regards always get our graceful attention, which is so captivating and positively mark our impression on them. Last, but not the least there is a certain softness of manner which should be cultivated in every human being which adds a charm that always entirely compensates for a lack of beauty and mind in them.

One of the most important and remarkable aspect of character is the manner in which we conduct ourselves toward others. A graceful, active and impressive behavior toward superiors, inferiors, and equals, is a constant source of pleasure and happiness in one’s life. It pleases others because it indicates respect for their personality and outlook, but it gives tenfold more pleasure to ourselves. Every person should become a self educator in good behavior and positive attitude at a large extent so, that he/she may get earn easily for their living-hood. We all should believe one thing that dignity should be exist in our own minds, only then the want of manners can be vanished away completely automatically. The language of a man is a perfect real good index of his character. It is quietly observed that an educated, cultivated and refined person always, speak softly, quietly, gently in such that manner that their every word is uttered with composure, even under bad situations also. Sometimes persons like these if are annoyed and out of mind also, even then their way of communicating has expressive silence and though they always maintain their self-respect.

Manners are the ornament of action and there is a way of speaking a kind word, or of doing a kind thing, which greatly enhances their value and make remarkable position in one’s life. Yet there are many men who pride themselves upon their false and fake attitude and though they may possess virtue capacity, but at the end their manner never support them in this way of work. The cultivation of manner is highly necessary in a person who is ready and willing to negotiate with others in matters of business, education and on personal grounds also. Affability and good-breeding always regarded as an essential part to the success of a man in any eminent stage and sphere of life. No, doubt that there are few strong tolerant minds which can bear with defects and invalid forms of manner, and therefore look only at the side of more genuine qualities. Agreeable manners contribute wonderfully to a man's success and happiness which therefore match upto his satisfaction level. A mannerful person should behave gentlemanly, kind, obliging and in an intelligent way always.

Good manners are not only an embellishment to personal charms, but an excellent substitute for them when they do not exist in real time. The most important thing which we all should keep in our mind is that when the attractions of beauty have disappeared, there should be an elegance and refinement of manners to supply their place. Beauty is the gift of nature, but manners are acquired by cultivation, surroundings, practice and adapting. Manners, etiquettes, wisdom, virtue, intelligence and worth, are universally respected and appreciated . All these help us to find our originality and individuality in our own respective life. We children think that manners are boring, but we are learning something we will benefit from for the rest of our lives. As we have a hard time remembering rules, rules at home, rules at school and rules when going out etc. The importance of learning and practicing good manners in our life is very much necessary which will help out all of us for living in the most beautiful way.

Manners are the most significant standards of conduct which show a person to be cultured, polite, educated, intelligent and refined. They set a standard for human behavior, attitude and thinking. Manners matter is evinced by the fact that large books and compositions have been written on this subject and that schools have existed for the sole purpose of teaching manners and etiquettes from a very long time. Good manners are the first mark of good breeding and oriented environment which reflects directly on a person’s upbringing and therefore learning good manners begins at home and should be taught by parents. Good manners do not come naturally to us, they have to be learnt and practice more day by day in our life. If children were not told and shown how to behave politely with everyone, they will grow up rough and rude like savages with all.

Manners are something used every day to make a good impression on others and also to feel good about oneself, so that we can live freely and easily in our life. Good manners are more than “opening doors” so, that everybody should be welcomed with open arms and “writing thank you notes” for giving back our gratitude to others in the most simplest and admirable way. Well, being polite and courteous means considering how others are feeling for us and what are their opinion about us in a real manner. If we practice good manners, we are showing people around us that we are considerate of their feelings and respecting them from the bottom of my heart. In this way, we are also setting standards for other’s behavior and encouraging them to treat us with similar respect, attention, honour, care and love. It is truly said and observed that always ‘Treat others the way you want them to treat you”. Good manners are not the same in all countries as different nations have different customs. However good manners may be different in different places, the principle of good manners is always the same everywhere, it is consideration for the feelings of others and almost respecting them from the true heart. Good manners are very important as they teach us the way to behave in society. They enable us to make favorable impressions on others, in school, at job interviews, and in just about every situation in life.

Children who understand and practice good manners feel more self confident and become more proactive in their dealings with adults. This feeling of self confidence is very important to our future success and also to maintain our satisfaction level by raising the level of our happiness in our life. We can make a difference in our school, in our community, in our state and in our nation by practicing Good Manners. Good manners play an important part in maintaining peace and good willing in a community. A man who has good manners does not hurt the feelings of others, and therefore he is on good terms with his friends and neighbors and also with others. In this way he helps to keep peace in society. For all of us it is very important to know this fact that to live well in a society, money alone is not enough. We should also have good manners, for it is human nature to seek friendship, love and respect from others. Friendship with others makes life pleasant and it has to be earned through our own attitude towards others.

If we are kind to others, they will be kind to us, and kindness is the essence of good manners. Bad manners not only drive away friends but also others, including our own family members. For a man may have enough money to buy all things than he wants, but if his manners are bad he will have no friends, and no one can live happily without friends. Even the members of his own family may not respect him and finally he will become a lonely man. On the other hand, a man whose manners are good has many friends. He commands the respect of all those who come into contact with him. He does not talk ill about others. Even when he is provoked, he tries his best to use words in a way which will not offend others. He is also sympathetic towards the weak and ignorant and does not poke fun at the deformities and weaknesses of others. There are, however, many people who behave so well outside their homes that they are respected and admired by everyone outside. But in their own homes they are worse than the devil. Such people could not be said to have good manners. If one’s manners are good, one behaves well everywhere, even when one is away from the critical eyes of others. Only such a person can live well in society. It is therefore essential for everyone to cultivate good manners.